
If you're anything like me, you have a bunch of regrets caused by your messing up socially in the past. Like a lot of things, I'm not as afflicted as I used to be, but I still deal with this problem occasionally. I'll catch myself having those moments where I dwell on some mistake I made and I think, "If only I had..." More than a few times I've had elaborate daydreams where I've thought about how much better things would be if I could start my life over again at age ten, or fourteen, or eighteen, knowing everything I know now.
Here are some of the regrets I've had.They're probably not very unique:
"Everyone had so much fun in high-school and college. I wasted those years."
"I shouldn't have lost touch with that friend."
"I shouldn't have be so socially clueless all those times."
"I wish I was more social as a kid."
"If only I hadn't let such-and-such a chance pass me by."
"If only I did such-and-such earlier."
Hey wait,it's already more than 3 meh! Hahaha..=P
Don't have regrets for unrealistic reasons
Everyone has regrets
This point is a little cheesy in that it's saying, "There there, don't feel bad", but is somewhat short on substance.
Like I said earlier, we all have things we regret.
Sometimes when I'm feeling regretful I almost believe I'm the only one who's ever screwed up in life. Of course,we all have things we wished we had done differently. No one gets everything right all the time.
Everyone knows everything in hindsight, but at the time we all have to be younger and more clueless. It makes me feel a little better to realize this, that I'm not some wretched loser who's all alone in having an imperfect past. Just me and every single other person.
Nota Pusat :
When it comes to bad decision people intend faster on regret.But never be the first one blaming our ownself.I wonder whether have we ever finger point to ourself and look in to the matter that causing the problem from the root in the first point itself.Well,certain people they never learn.
eq.farraney ANOMALOUS
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