4 Signs Relationship breaking up
1. Distancing
When there is a noticeable drop in the amount of quality time you two spend together, you need to examine the cause. Is your partner distancing themselves from you either physically or emotionally? If all of the sudden he doesn’t have as much time for you because he has made other plans which don’t include you, he’s telling you that he’d rather spend time with someone else. If one or both of you find yourselves consistently in different rooms of the house, doing different things instead of spending time together, this reveals a lack of connection between the two of you.
Physical communication, like cuddling and sex, are an integral and important part of a relationship; if neither of you are making the time to snuggle or get hot and heavy in the bedroom, you will continue to grow apart and probably end up looking for this attention elsewhere. Partners can also distance themselves from each other emotionally, by keeping conversations short and shallow, avoiding eye contact and simply acting less interested in their mates and the connection their relationship is built on. If both of you begin to invest less time and emotion in the relationship, it will not last.
Feedback:
….as in #1….in the 45 years of experience reading on relationships, I’ve witnessed many, mostly men, step back and distance themselves from a relationship to objectively analyze it, before stepping back into it.
In fact, over 80% of men do this at some point in the relationship…..men tell me they want to be sure of their feelings, and even things such as financial stability, before they plow ahead and move forward towards a long term commitment.
# 1 & 3 are generally what men do, but I’ve seen some women do it too…..
the male mind processes emotions in a different way than most women…..
Just some things I’ve noticed in 45 years of reading as a professional psychic…..
many couples will go thru # 1 & #3 and still end up at the alter……
I’ve seen many couples go thru #1 & # 3 only to eventually wind up at the alter taking their marriage vows….and in fact, I feel those pauses and questions are healthy, better to get the doubts out of the way BEFORE leaping into marriage.
2. Arguments
Disagreements are a part of every relationship and to a certain degree can be healthy for a couple. When two different people share so much of their time and lives, there are bound to be things that they don’t agree upon. Hashing out these problems in a disagreement allows both of you to get your feelings out so that you can come to some conclusion or compromise.
Arguments within a relationship that is in trouble can go both ways. If both people stop arguing completely, this can be a sign of your lack of emotional investment in the partnership. It’s easy to avoid quarrels if neither of you maintains a personal investment in one another. In this sense, arguments can be good, as they show the other person that their partner does care and is willing to fight about whatever the issue is in order to reach a compromise.
On the other hand, if you both start quarreling constantly about the littlest of things, this can be a bad sign. Constant arguments just add up to “I’m not happy in this relationship anymore.” Nitpicking with your mate sets the stage for constant bickering, giving either of you the opportunity to say something to the effect of “the relationship just isn’t working anymore.”
3. Comparison Shopping?
When your honey starts comparing you to other women or other relationships, you need to stop and evaluate.
Comparing someone to another is equivalent to saying “I don’t like you as you are, and I wish you would change.” This degrades you and your relationship, and may be a sign that he is either not over a previous woman, or has already turned his eyes to “greener” pastures.
Either way, your partner has decided on a set of essentials that you don’t measure up to. This is the signal to get out before he undermines your self-esteem, allowing you to find a guy who appreciates you above all others.
Feedback:
1.As for #3…..many, many men will at some point ask themselves:
” how do I really know if I’m in love” (?), or” how do I know if this is the right woman for me” (?)…..they will do some comparison shopping to determine if, or how much, they miss the woman they think they really love. (More men do this than women know about or realize).
I’ve had many guys tell me…..” I fell in love but wasn’t sure if it was THE love, so I dated 5, 10, 15 woman only to realize that none of them were HER, and so I realized that none could fill her shoes but HER”.
# 1 & 3 are generally what men do, but I’ve seen some women do it too…..the male mind processes emotions in a different way than most women…..
I’ve seen many couples go thru #1 & # 3 only to eventually wind up at the alter taking their marriage vows….and in fact, I feel those pauses and questions are healthy, better to get the doubts out of the way BEFORE leaping into marriage.
4. Living for the Moment
Most couples invest their time and energy into a relationship in the hopes that it will turn into something permanent and valuable.While you should appreciate each moment with your partner, you should always have an eye towards the future. You can do this by making plans with your loved one for future trips and quality time together. If one or both of you has stopped doing this, committing only to whatever you may plan for the moment, you may want to re-evaluate the relationship.
If you two cannot comfortably speak of future plans as a couple, if you cannot feel excitement about your future together, you will not put in the effort to get there.
Feedback:
1.As for # 4…….many women fall into love quicker then men do …… that’s a fact, not assumption.
AND #4 is where many girls” drop the ball” so to speak……
Ladies, be patient,… and don’t pressure a man too soon into the courting into make marital plans or long term commitment plans or you will come off as being needy, clingy and insecure.
Pressuring a man too soon into the relationship…..I guarantee!!!!!… is the quickest way to turn a man off, chase him off, or convince him you are NOT the gal he could be, and live with, with 24/7.
The courting process is beneficial for BOTH of you……so be patient and enjoy it…..be present in the moment with your partner…..
Credit to : california.physic
Nota Pusat :
If any one can tell me to my face that no men look on hot nesses or physical attraction (depends on people taste)
I said, they lied.
They look for chemistry.
Yes, indeed.. But I tell you what; it’s definitely about the looks.
If at the end of one scenario.. 'Soul and blend thingy' will alter 1 decision,
Looks definitely 1 matter that silently count and never ever to be explain.
It's a way of Life. The Rules.
Women? =P
eq.farraney ANOMALOUS
salam ziarah
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