We all have secrets. There are secrets we should share, like “honey, we’re in financial ruin because all our stock was invested with Bernie Madoff,” and then there are the ones that we should just let lie. Here are five of the latter:
1. Earning money makes men feel valuable. In the recession, divorce rates have gone up. The money that was once an endless flow now has to be accounted for and watched carefully. People continue to cut back on luxury items – but remember, if your man loses his job, his ego will have suffered a greater blow than when a woman does. You should always know your financial health, but especially in this economy, you have to do your part and pay attention. Eating at home more often will not only save money, it will create more quality time with your family. Turn that negative into a positive.
2. Men like to fix things! There’s a difference between this and mindless chores like taking out the trash or folding laundry – men like tasks where they can use a bit of ingenuity and muscle, like putting up a shelf or fixing the sink, which takes more skill. If your man spends a lot of time in the basement or his “workshop,” you might want to discuss a bigger project he can supervise, like an addition to the house, or even building a pond in your backyard.
3. Men like to drive because they don’t think women are good drivers. They feel the need to be in control, and find it puts them in a vulnerable position when we drive instead of them. If you have to pick your husband up from somewhere, offer him the chance to get behind the wheel. He’ll feel empowered and won’t be freaking out internally when you are talking on the phone at the same time as driving.
4. When you give men space, they appreciate you more! Men need alone time and they need male bonding time, so let them go, and even encourage it. It will make the time you have together more valued.
5. Men do look at other women, no matter how happy they are, so hopefully your man is subtle in this area. This doesn’t mean that your man is going to cheat on you or act on it with more than a smile… but it’s male nature to look.
What secrets would you add to the list?
Nota Pusat :
They always wanted to make U feel guilty when there's nothing left for u and him.
It's not ur fault, in fact it makes them look stupid.(certain of them)
eq.farraney ANOMALOUS
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