SPIRITUAL ATTRACTION

Here's how to recognize the real thing:
SPIRITUAL ATTRACTION.

1) It Feels Like You've Come Home

When you're with the right guy, you'll know it
because you feel calm about it. It will feel
normal, like "of course this is happening."

If you're feeling anxious around him or about
him and you feel the need to analyze his every
word with everyone you talk to, then you can be
pretty sure he's not your guy.

If you're thinking "huh" instead of "ahhh"
most of the time, something's wrong.

2) You're Being Your Best You

When you get that spring in your step, you
start getting kudos at work, and you're inspired
to stick to your workout routine, chances are
you've landed on Mr. Right. If, however, you're
not functioning at your job, you've let your good
habits slide, and friends are starting to worry
about you, then stop over thinking it:

This guy is not The One.

3) You Can Let Things Unfold

Are you doing, doing, doing to make the
relationship happen? Do you feel like you have to
constantly control things in order to make the
relationship move forward?

Then I can tell you that spiritual attraction
is not at work here. The guy you were born to be
with will be a breath of fresh air to you -
you'll feel like you can let go and let things
happen naturally...

Even if you're a control freak (although
you'll need to work on this if you want a good,
lasting relationship and to save your sanity!)

4) You Feel Comfortable Saying "No"

A sure sign you're with the wrong guy is when
you feel you have to go against your truth to be
with him. If you're making what he thinks the
most important thing, and you're doing things to
please him you normally wouldn't do, then this is
not a stellar match.

Your true Mr. Right respects who you are and
makes you feel comfortable to express what you
don't want.


eq.farraney ANOMALOUS